27November2008
A few days ago, a friend that told me he want to get married, have a little surprised, because the bride was only 20 years old this year, but can not, pregnant. I think pregnancy in fact be prepared for some couples, is very happy, but some have not yet psychologically prepared, what would happen? Perhaps I should not like the first, she might have been able to do a good mother, but the 20-year-old for me, really young, she would later regret it? Marriage is not a joke, does she really give up her studies, and in the community has not yet entered before and to get married? In fact, listen to a lot of newly married and pregnant friend, said that because of changes in mood, and often quarrel with her husband, perhaps this is a challenge and over, children born after the couple's lack of experience, there are bound to be problems, will not be There only regret?
I think,the responsibility of parents to do really great, if not ready to marry under, after the birth of a child to think on the other side is not, to divorce, then that child how to do? For a child, in the absence of the healthy growth of the environment grew, he later life be happy? I have never experienced such a thing, but my view is that children are innocent, not self-willed adults, and the misuse of a child's life, perhaps my view is a bit exaggerated, but it is every couple should be Face. Feelings just can not, and did not know you married the person is not the end of your life with that person, right? In my view there is perhaps a little extreme, wish them hapiness forever...
A few days ago, a friend that told me he want to get married, have a little surprised, because the bride was only 20 years old this year, but can not, pregnant. I think pregnancy in fact be prepared for some couples, is very happy, but some have not yet psychologically prepared, what would happen? Perhaps I should not like the first, she might have been able to do a good mother, but the 20-year-old for me, really young, she would later regret it? Marriage is not a joke, does she really give up her studies, and in the community has not yet entered before and to get married? In fact, listen to a lot of newly married and pregnant friend, said that because of changes in mood, and often quarrel with her husband, perhaps this is a challenge and over, children born after the couple's lack of experience, there are bound to be problems, will not be There only regret?
I think,the responsibility of parents to do really great, if not ready to marry under, after the birth of a child to think on the other side is not, to divorce, then that child how to do? For a child, in the absence of the healthy growth of the environment grew, he later life be happy? I have never experienced such a thing, but my view is that children are innocent, not self-willed adults, and the misuse of a child's life, perhaps my view is a bit exaggerated, but it is every couple should be Face. Feelings just can not, and did not know you married the person is not the end of your life with that person, right? In my view there is perhaps a little extreme, wish them hapiness forever...
