wish her a speedy recovery..my dear friend...

Just back from the hospital, a friend who is admitted to the hospital also because of dengue .Her case more serious than me.I see her, she is alone,her family and her husband not there too. she did not have appetite to eat, but also spit out everything, do not have the strength, to see feel pain too, I can understand her feelings now , really hard because this disease the most important thing is to drink water, but she spit on if drink, really worried.

Maybe this year for her is not so smooth , before New Year, listening to her talk about her and her husband's problem, they only married for one year, now divorced, marriage really no protection and not only a word? I know sometimes because of communication problem, but why it did not want to clear? Marriage is a lifetime event, must not rush, otherwise will certainly regret it.

She needs someone to be with her now, but just did not see her husband, I think, why her husband can be so reassuring to go home, leaving his wife alone? I suddenly have a little look down on this man, perhaps my ideas are a bit extreme, although I do not understand their feelings, but I really got no 'comment' about this man, I hope my friend a speedy recovery and hope she will feel better tomorrow, worrying her. . . .God bless her...

A happy woman...

Had lunch with my ex- colleague today. Previous, she is not happy with the job, in fact, she work is only in order to pass the time, I have always jokingly called her princess charming to stay at home, and now her life is true. A month ago she had just come back from Japan, but also to Australia next month, but she has complained her life now is very boring, Living flu that did not, but we are always working hard for people who are really the envy of I really ironic, ha ha. I think she is happy, and heard that her husband is also very good for her, but honestly, I still enjoy the work of life, understanding of different people learn different things, and that is life, life is too relaxed, then the target may not be , then there would be no color in life. I think I will enjoy that first bitter sweet life, work pressure, the go travel, enjoy working hard to come back again, I think so that they will have satisfaction. Each person can ask the way of life are different, so long as to live happy and meaningful, it is enough, right?

A letter- 5years ago...

Last night, when I clean up the room, I open a long time have not opened the box, suddenly saw an old friend wrote my letter, if I remember correctly, it should be a letter five years ago. Once we are very good friends, just like the two sisters, no matter what will be in line to do, anything can be shared, because of some misunderstanding and the reasons, we have no further contact to see the contents of the letter, suddenly felt very sad, sudden miss this one a long time not seen friend. I know that she is now married, living well, has a love of her husband, and a small baby, a well-off homes, but also quite happy. We have said must be happy, she did, I also happy for her.

Probably because we've grow up, thinking, and living habits are beginning to change, and now we are only in sending forward sms for some holiday but can not seem to before, nothing can be discussed, suddenly feeling very bad. Finally read the letter, no matter what happens, you will always be my best best friend. See here,I cried. In my mind, she still exist, feel very comfortable after cried. Person can not live forever in memory, it has to move forward. I dry the tears and put the letter into the box.Thank you, once with me through so many happy way, bless you, my old friend!

属于.....

属于..........

我坚持的 都值得坚持吗 我所相信的 就是真的吗 如果我赶追求 我就敢拥有吗 而如果都算了 不要呢
或许吧 或许我永远都不要遇见他 或许吧 或许我太天真了吧
属于我的昨天之前的结局 我决定我的决定 属于我的明天之后的憧憬 我迷信我的迷信
属于我们点点滴滴的伤心 我们要各自忘记 属于我们闪闪发亮的爱情 我们再一起努力
属于风的 那就去飞翔吧 属于海洋的 那就汹涌吧 属于我们的爱 该来的就来吧 为什么不敢呢 不要呢?
是他吧 命中早就注定了的那个他 是他吧 他原来就在这里啊
属于我的昨天之前的结局 我决定我的决定 属于我的明天之后的憧憬 我迷信我的迷信
属于我们点点滴滴的伤心 我们要各自忘记 属于我们闪闪发亮的爱情 我们再一起努力
属于我的昨天之前的结局 我决定我的决定 属于我的明天之后的憧憬 我迷信我的迷信
属于我们点点滴滴的伤心 我们要各自忘记 属于我们闪闪发亮的爱情 我们再一起努力
属于我们点点滴滴的伤心 我们要各自忘记 属于我们闪闪发亮的爱情 我们再一起努力

*很喜欢这首歌，今天属于我的东西，明天是否也一样？又或者明天不再属于我呢？

Hapiness....

RADIO yesterday ,in the DJ made a remark that very interesting, I would like to share with you. She said that 'today is your thing, does not mean that tomorrow is also belong to you', I strongly agreed. The world there is no absolute thing, of course, also includes love, and therefore we must cherish what we have, do not always want to think- still have time, we must cherish every second of time together, please?

Happiness is to have to strive for, but how many people can have their favorite people marry? Legend says that we usually can not get marry with the loves one , it is a regret, and only 20% of the people can be their favorite person to get married, they are happy. Perhaps, and a love of their marriage, it is happiness. Sometimes think that love is sweet, but is also painful. Sweet time of course happy, but when the quarrel, the two sides will hurt the other side to say something?then the scars are forever, right?

I hope people all over the world happiness...

Those days in hospital....

On that day, all suddenly felt uncomfortable, perhaps this really is not so lucky, Chinese New Year coming soon , but I've forced to admit to the hospital, really unlucky. Recently, a newspaper reported dengue daily news, really did not think would be a member on it. Thanks god, you can let me go home to eat in the Mission's Eve dinner, or to eat in the hospital, then atmosphere is really no point.

Although only a three-day stay in hospital, but really very sad & suffering day, every day is the same medicine to eat, and now see the 'PANADOL' I feel fear, nothing to eat taste, lying in a hospital during those few days time really been very slow progress, the original health is really very important, even how much money we have, is really not feeling well,what can we do?Nothing right? I was lying next to an auntie, but also DENGUE, but probably because we so noisy, the next afternoon, she has asked for changed room, ha ha, my friend, you gals really noisy, know?

However, we will only 'value' of friendship when we need help or get sick, thank you, of course, my family, especially parents and 'you', thank you, I need to take care of most of the time, you all in my around, Friends, I will never forget your 'worried' faces, I promise you gals, I will take care of myself, do not let myself sick, I hope everyone is healthy and happy!

Simple=Hapiness

That day ,chat with the young bride who has just married , talk about her wedding day and life. Because of pregnancy, she was forced to stop her studies, conversation, her husband has been enough complaints romantic, did not give her any surprises, and she said her home will always thinking. There is no doubt that a pregnant woman must have such characteristics, it is rather surprising that she is only in the room every day, there is no communication between family members and her husband, but the simple and naive in her eyes, I think that she is happy But after the child after birth, but also be like?

In my eyes, I feel that her husband treat her really good, although it is missing a little bit of romance and fun, in fact, as long as there is a genuine good of their own men, so not romantic, what does the so-called? I do not know what their life is apparently a matter of fact her husband is also very carefully to her, no one is absolutely PERFECT, right? For me, not psychologically prepared for marriage under the one day fly in the ointment, not perfect. Now there is a problem, after the baby born to them have never experienced the same newlyweds whether it can stand the test?I believe that is the simple is equals to happiness, agreed? Forever loyal to wish them happiness.