Sunday, March 1, 2009

Who is the 'right' person?

In fact, the most distressing is the loves one not understand me.When to say is always so sweet, but when the problem happened , why all the words into harm? Why love a people so pain?In fact, the fundamental love is to let the two people in loves have the opportunity to hurt each other, do you agree with it?

Originally, the thought that he would be the most understanding of my people, but until now found that most people are not aware of him in me, it is difficult to describe this feeling, the tears flow in my heart, but the eyes did not tear, it is sad or despair? Women despair, or give up hope, also can save it?

Possible, life and love, has never been protection, but also should not buy long-term insurance, and die, the insurance will compensate, but totally the case? What happens?

Time is the best proof of love, perhaps we really need a long period of time, or experienced a lot of things before I noticed that the other side instead not the right ones.... but it would be too cruel, why should there be many good memories, it was found out he was not the 'right' person?

2 comments:

Esther Lee said...

we often misunderstand the *right* person for our Mr Right. Who'll be the right person for us? I don't think there's any Mr Right though.

in a relationship, we should refer to *we* and not *I* only. so, it's a 2 people relations. it's a 2-ways communications.

of course, we often meet disappointments when our expectations are not met. so, is it selfish to expect and hope that someone would do this and that for us? do we do enough to meet others' expectations or does he has expectation from us? that needs a lot of thinking.

in my opinion is that, as long as we're comfortable to BE WITH that person and happy as you go along, that's the right person. it doesn't takes any account on any rich, poor, good looking or whatsoever....

a successful relationship is that, you are always want to be with and doing the same thing together, and not check listing whether he/she has done enough to satisfy your requests, i supposed.

;p

WinNie LoY said...

Perhaps you are right,god bless you.

I hope that those who loved me would be the well-being , and the people I loved so!